Posts by Doubtfully Yours

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Marrying to a non christian

by greendawn in

would you ever get married to a person of a non christian background such as moslem, hindu or jewish?

I did administrative support for an company filled with engineers that were predominantly muslim and hindu. So much so that the company had certain times of the day that they would go to a room and do their worshipping.

Also, I went to school and attended college with a few girls that wore that burka outfit.

By what I saw and heard through these experiences, there'd be no commonality for a dating/marriage relationship with anyone from the Jewish, Muslim or Hindu perception. It's all completely too weird and off the wall for me.

I befriended this co-worker, a white girl, that found some commonality with one of these Hindu engineers. She was very voiceful and outgoing with the group of us; all very nice. Next thing I knew, a few months had passed by and she became very subdued/contained/low tone of voice and even wearing typical Hindu attire at times. We were all like "what ever happened to the Susan we knew?!"

DY

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WT web site now says to get professional help for psychological trauma/rape

by rebel8 in

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http://www.watchtower.org/library/g/2001/8/22/article_02.htm

of course they do their normal song and dance about spiritual help being more important, but still they do come out and state "consult with a competent health professional".

Doubtfully Yours

This is great news!!!

I told you all they're evolving, didn't I?!

As times passes by they'll become more and more reformed. Great!!!

DY

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Anti-Witnessesing: Passive Agressive Style Effective for Quotes

by Quotes in

well, they came magazine selling door-knocking ingathering and judgeing witnessing today.

but first, a quick background.... my wife and i have a investment property 90 minutes away from our home (a mistake btw; always invest closer to your home!

) and we've been there (here) full time for the past several days doing some renovations.

Doubtfully Yours

Quotes,

Dana knew she was talking to an apostate. JWs get enough training to understand where the person at the door is coming from. By your comments at the door, she must've understood you had some prior JW knowledge and now have turned against it.

If she's a good, well-trained JW, you should not be seeing her ever again. Unless of course she's back with a much more knowledgeable JW (elder or CO type).

She knew. She definitely knew.

DY

33

Relationship??

by penton in

after meeting a wonderful fella who also is jw.

i've never felt this way about anyone before in my life.

the only thing is i don't know if its possible for us to have a stable relationship, as i am r.c, not actually i'm irish roman catholic which is a little bit "stricter".

Doubtfully Yours

Penton,

JWs have very nice qualities that make them seem ideal for a loving and lasting relationship. However, soon the religion will become an issue. The non-JW will have to assimilate the JW's religion in order to keep the peace.

The JW will not be upfront about his/her condition of the other becoming a JW. This is a process that will happen slowly when the mate is already into the relationship wholeheartedly.

It's an entrapment type deal. Proceed with extreme caution.

DY

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Bringing reproach on Jehovah's name? My step-daughter to be DF'd

by wordlywife in

why is it considered that a person's bad/poor actions bring reproach upon god?

i don't understand this one bit when i hear my husband talk about it.

my stepdaughter is most likely going to be df'd soon (for being a typical teeneager as far as my worldly views).

Doubtfully Yours

Isaiah 40: 15 Look! The nations are as a drop from a bucket; and as the film of dust on the scales they have been accounted. Look! He lifts the islands themselves as mere fine [dust]. 17 All the nations are as something nonexistent in front of him; as nothing and an unreality they have been accounted to him.

22 There is One who is dwelling above the circle of the earth, the dwellers in which are as grasshoppers, the One who is stretching out the heavens just as a fine gauze, who spreads them out like a tent in which to dwell.

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Bringing reproach on Jehovah's name? My step-daughter to be DF'd

by wordlywife in

why is it considered that a person's bad/poor actions bring reproach upon god?

i don't understand this one bit when i hear my husband talk about it.

my stepdaughter is most likely going to be df'd soon (for being a typical teeneager as far as my worldly views).

Doubtfully Yours

The Bible itself mentions that men are viewed as "mere grasshoppers", "dust", "made of dust". If we're regarded this insignificant by this Almightly God, how in the world could such a low creature in comparison bring reproach to its creator???!!!

The concept is incomprehensible!!!!!!!!!!

It's almost like saying that the doings and behavior of ants or other lower forms of life bring reproach to humans, which are considered superior in comparison. The reasoning that mankind brings reproach to an Almighty God is just pure craziness!!!

DY

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not dfd but no-one speaks to me

by dedpoet in

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friends

i am ex pioneer, ex ministerial serpent not been near a kh in 6 years, smoke, drink had a live in gf until recently, but not dfd, so much for keeping the cong clean!

still, none of my "brothers" with a couple of exceptions, speaks to me now, their way of trying to win me back perhaps?

not that it'd work - i am happy now after 10 years of bs from people who ought to know better but don't

Doubtfully Yours

Dedpoet,

Welcome!

I'm considered 'spiritually weak' and I've experienced a form of shunning from the 'holier than Thou' type at the KH. So, don't feel bad about it.

DY

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Who is the Faithful and Discrete Slave?

by Etude in

recently, i've had memories about that topic, which i had suppressed for a long time.

my original question came up when i encountered a few members of the "anointed" in my congregation (we're talking almost 30 years ago).. there was one sister who partook of the "emblems" who had come from cuba.

i learned from her that her health was frail because she had smuggled some expensive jewelry in a condom and stuck it up her colon.

Doubtfully Yours

The answer varies, depending on who you ask.

7th Day Adventists say it's them. Pentecostals say it's them. Baptists say it's them. Jewish still believe they're exclusively God's people. Everybody believes they're the ones that got it right.

DY

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End of the World Near?

by love2Bworldly in

jw
friends

i am wondering how many people out there still believe that in the next 100 years or so that this world/earth is going to be destroyed?.

my husband is a christian, and sometimes he is obsessed with world events in the middle east and he thinks one day soon all the christians are going to be raptured away to heaven while the antichrist rules here on earth.

i am extremely uncomfortable when he talks about it because it reminds me of the jws.. any thoughts out there?

Doubtfully Yours

If anything, I think one of these days one of the countries lead by extremists loonies will release a nuclear device towards a target or a harmful biological agent, thus knocking mankind back to the stone age.

Just an exaggeration, of course.

DY

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End of the World Near?

by love2Bworldly in

jw
friends

i am wondering how many people out there still believe that in the next 100 years or so that this world/earth is going to be destroyed?.

my husband is a christian, and sometimes he is obsessed with world events in the middle east and he thinks one day soon all the christians are going to be raptured away to heaven while the antichrist rules here on earth.

i am extremely uncomfortable when he talks about it because it reminds me of the jws.. any thoughts out there?

Doubtfully Yours

I remember in the mid-70s/early 80s, how scientists and other knowledgeable people used to say mankind wouldn't make it to the year 2000 if things kept up as they were back then.

Here we are pushing 2006.

DY